It’s been quiet here these past few days
been rainy and stormy and grey
our guests are gone
there’s water dripping here and there
looks like it will be quiet for a few more days
I photographed and interviewed Claudia and Julia last week
they are both 30 (it was Claudia’s birthday)
they were both on vacation with their beau
I got to know them a little, took a few pictures and asked random questions
there is a topic now that I will keep on investigating
age, aging, time
here they are
Claudia and Simon
Claudia is from Germany, she is a lawyer, wants to make a decent living, wants kids.
She turned thirty during her stay in Sidi Kaouki. That morning I made her fluffy pancakes with honey syrup. She liked them so much she asked for the recipe.
Simon looked chill, I forget what he does but he seemed willing to stay home and look after the kids when the time comes. Attentive, he had bought a small cake for her birthday. With candles on it.
They were both lovely.
– How does it feel to be 30?
“Three or four months ago I didn’t want to get 30 but now I feel good.
The last year is that (when) I found the more and more what I am. When I was younger it was like what the world is expecting from me.”
Now she feels like she is being herself not meeting others’ expectation.
“I want to be happy, have a family, we want to marry.”
“I don’t like this word: old. Maybe you are never old. You can not fix it with an age.”
“You don’t get that much older when you go with the times. My grandmother has a strong will. She grew with the times.”
Julia and Aurélien
Julia is French.
She is pretty, social, happy, generous, attentive.
She likes her coffee black.
She is a waitress.
She wanted to work with kids and elders
Do social work
For some reason the french system may not let you be what you want to be
Julia loves: the sun, Morocco, but most of all she loves Aurélien
What is your dream?
“A house in the country, a big piece of land, three sheep, chickens, a goat, a garden, a baby.”
What do you like about your work?
“The contact with people. To offer (the pleasure of) food. The contact with the kitchen: foods, smells, flavors.”
She likes the fast pace. “You don’t get bored”
A good waitress is…?
“Organize, efficient, always smiling.”
Aging? What is it to be old?
“It’s in your head” “ I’m thirty now, my twenties are behind me. I’m not happy to be thirty, to have lost my youth. It’s the Peter Pan complex.”
What is youth?
“It’s to have time ahead of you, the older you get the less time you got.”
About Aurélien she says:
“I’m a fan of our love.”
Ines left us too this week
She is a beautiful, spirited young lady
She has claws and she can bite
for that reason she found a new home
before she left we had time to become friends
What makes you happy?
“meow, meow, meow” (sardines, half the bed in the middle of the night, ruling the house)
What do you think about age?
(what you talking about?)
I miss them all.